I have some tips of advice too help you along your journey too Manhood. These are critical for your pursuit of happiness & well-being. I would know, many of these tips I've succumbed too & recovered, so bear with me. Feel free too take note & discuss this with your Parents, Teachers or Professors.
Self-confidence is imperative for a prominent social stature. There comes a time in everyone's life when they realize people do change & it's either habitat or personal educational evolution. As you toil on your everyday studies, I suggest you treat your academics as a professional. Work hard, play hard. The smarter you become, the prominence shall follow. When you're self-confident, you don't worry so much about the status quo & peer pressure shouldn't dictate your endeavors.
Women are genuinely just as shallow minded as most Men. So if you want too be a competitor in the dating scene, you need money & with money you need too be intellectually sound minded. Women in the 21st Century will most likely not even give you the time of day if it wouldn't help her socially & or financially. So with that said, Education = Priority! Institutional scholastic's will give you financial & employment security but that doesn't stop there. Life is a never ending academia. The World is at your fingertips too study & learn what you want, when you make time do so. When you feel that self reward, you'll have attained that self-confidence.
"Anyone who stops learning is old, whether at twenty or eighty. Anyone who keeps learning stays young. The greatest thing in life is to keep your mind young." ~ Henry Ford
To be inspired by something you know very little about is to not think about what you do not understand but what you're willing to learn. Here's a tip for you young fellas about the opposite gender. When you find a good young lady, she tells everyone she found a good young Man, Then her friends tell everyone & before you know it, they all found a good young Man. Most likely you'll become a statistic of unfaithfulness because they'll try too steal you from your girlfriend. Especially if she's unfriended one of them.
The ultimate date is religious courtship that she will never forget. In other words, a Church retreat or service will befriend a great friend for the rest of your lives. Unless of course & this happens all the time, they may become disgruntled. Steer clear of those jaded females. There's plenty of them so take my advice.
In the 21st Century, it's not just about the Grades you make in formal Institutions. It's about how smart you become throughout life. Evolve, adapt & overcome. Every person is different & you should treat them all that way. When you build your circle of friends, make sure you benefit from that circle. If your buddies are not motivating you for future success & intellect, you're basically hanging out with the wrong crowd. That's time too move on.
Don't let others make you feel inferior. Be conscious of those you submit yourselves too, you're ultimately in charge. Take a job & do that job well. Women, don't like broke jokers in & out of trouble. If your Women does, she's in it for popularity & the money. When your freedom & liberties are taken away; the truth is, she's gone. Women don't stand by their Man anymore. That's just the way it is these days, unfortunately. So get that education & avoid much of this drama. Soon you'll be driving your fancy vehicles & live in your luxurious estates with your Woman & Family.
There ya go fellas; the cold hard truth, that is. Please feel free too invite your buddies & be sure too remember this. Have a great School year & College Students, don't be drinking & driving. You'd rather upset your best friend, sibling or parents than too risk your girlfriends life. I know, I've survived a fatal accident. Remember; work hard, play hard!
Your favorite Maestro,
Troy David 'Maestro' Beadles
Honor, Courage & Commitment!
Blood, Sweat & Tears! ~ Semper Fi~