Welcome Ladies & Gentlemen,
Troy David 'Maestro' Beadles
I've compiled a few sentiments for you in hopes you'll ponder about & relate. With these values you can't go wrong. I've been endowed with an empowerment of trial & error. I know from past relationships what I need & with my mindset & the character that the world has made me a product of for the last 22 years online. So trust that I know what not to do & what I'm doing with the best intentions, honorably so.
There are sacrifices in coupled unions, in both private & public lives. Your best bet is to find one that concurs & protect each others better interests with a constant line of communication & malleable understanding in each other. You don't have to be engaged or married to value those things. You can have a relationship with each other long distance or everyday life back in your home town. If you both share your beliefs, there's nothing to worry about.
Choose the one that makes you whole. When you complete your partner, you'll begin to know what she is thinking. Level the playing field & break the ice early. Don't stress about fidelity in your Woman, it'll drive ya crazy. There comes a certain point that one mistake could ruin everything. Know it! Know what to do & use your head. When you know that point in your relationship, cross it together. May that be engagement or marriage. Even casual to steady pertains.
Ladies, sex is overrated. Admit it, we all see good looking people everyday & rich people too. You'll know a fine companion when you feel it in your guts. You become intertwined & follow each others lead. You lean upon that loved one not for dependency but for a co-dependency & family unit. You should always & this might sound old fashioned but these values should hold grounds for traditional ways of life for your future spouse & unfortunately this is all to uncommon in the 21st Century. If you're going to go for it, go with all your heart & include her parents & family in your endearments.
Uncommon love is most often reveled as a treasure. When you understand that the treasure is worth more than its cost, then you know you haven't lost its true meaning. Personally I would rather befriend my Woman's friends than hangout with the guys. At 21, I wouldn't have. I know, I'm an alpha male. I started dating at a young age & hung out with the fellas that ended up causing me to be romantically challenged no matter how hard I worked to provide for my significant others. These days, that'd be heaven to entwine my future spouses friends into our lives. Seriously think about that! When I want to hang with the fellas on a ladies night out for any reason she wants me time with the girls; I'll go play a round of golf or enjoy a concert, what have ya. As long as she's happy & knows her future is secure in every way possible.
For my future Woman my advice will be to her; working through difficult times, she's got to concentrate on all things that matter in better judgement for the benefit of two people. Her & I. It's not so simple anymore, it can be complex so I'll tell her to always be a professional Woman & I know she'll be proudly so. Never let them see you sweat is another thing I'll tell her. I'll tell her to grin & bear her honest toil & know she will be coming home to someone that will never allow her to be lonely or not cared for. We'll confide in family as much as possible & that will mean me as well no matter the status, casual, steady, engaged or dearly wed. Include her parents, siblings & friends. Respect her space & by all means protect her space.
With success comes complacency. In life & in love.You get fat & happy but then you'll be prone to mistakes. Don't lose your hustle & stay hungry. One mistake could ruin everything you've worked for emotionally. If you treat her as I said I'm going to treat my future partner, that communication, trust, malleable mindset or comfort, you're as good as gold. Console yourself with productivity. Be that of a journal or diary. Start with what's troubling you & what you need to fix it. Then if you need to discuss these issues, don't blow up & lose your temper to start a fight just to make up. Share these things regularly & talk it over. It would be healthy for the relationship & to nurture it daily. I know, trust me. It's watering the flowers or any new seedling for that matter. Without watering a tree, the roots wont grow.
I have been online since 1995 & have met wonderful people all over the World thanks to technology. It has really given me an understanding of life, culture, religion, language & freedom. I am a very understanding & creative individual, friend, father, son, brother, uncle & cousin. I never ask for anything if I do not need it & will share with those without if I have something they do not. I try to live happy with what I have & do not take things for granted. I will always be remembered by not just for who I was but for who I am still today. I would rather be hated for who I am rather than for whom you are not. I am not a cover song artist; however, I am highly & influentially most original in everything I do in life, relationships & music. I honestly take the approach from any & every angle that's possible for the benefit of not only myself but for her as well. As I profess, think on a larger scale for dependents & that in return with a significant other or not, you'll procure & sustain better numbers regardless of love life & for when you have the love of life with your better half.
Troy David 'Maestro' Beadles