On a serious topic today I'm touching on life & love. Life I regularly discuss; however, love gives sight to the blind & rhythm to the deaf. So feel me & see what the future renders. We are all on a mission for ourselves; so with that said, be open to try & understand my philosophy. It will surely benefit you & those that are dependent. I honor your time & it's a privilege to have the obligation. You're worth it. I trust you!
Your mindset is cultivated from yields of loss or gain. Your story; your history, everything about you is a product of which you have submitted yourself. We're all products of society. We choose whom we become when we weigh the pros & cons in which our habitat has defined. Go against the grain. Leave a mark in the World. Whether that be family; finances, namesake, all of which is your legacy. Legends standout, they're unique.
What you offer your neighbors, you'll find in return. That's life's treasure. You love to be loved. Communities that thrive are those loved. Don't put yourselves in odd situations unless you have every means of evening it out. Stay on a level playing field with dialect & solidarity. When we reach a certain age & maturity, you're all that matters not only to those that depend on you but most importantly maintaining yourself, family & those treasured neighbors.
People come & go in your lives. Your history isn't defined by past pretense. It's whom you've become as a consenting adult & you define that yourselves. We all have rules & guidelines but the fact is you answer to yourself. You have to know yourselves to know what you importantly need & want. We all labor for something or someone else. Popularity is great but your happiness is worth far greater than any acclamation of fame & ill fortune.
Accept only those that procure a better you. We all seek things that make us unique or we conform. Be that of love. Wealth follows that passion. You cannot go through life wandering aimlessly. You have to wonder & that inquisitive demeanor births opportunity & happiness. Don't strife. An ill begotten Man will self-destruct whether it be of law or psychologically, so tender your wishes & personify love through your definitive actions.
Your sense of reality no matter the naysayers, is what & who you are & whom you have become. You may have known someone for 30 years that don't know the real you that you have become in your life's experience. Friends are those in the community that understand you & have evolved with you. They feel your pain. They console you when needed & confide in you with encouragement. Those of which become Family & irrefutable at best.
Circumstance defines character if you let that situation dictate your well-being. As I mentioned, don't set yourself at odds in the first place unless you intend to gain & prosper from it. Entertainers can relate; I mention in my publications, success & leadership. That's why & when stars migrate to a community of friends equally of importance & commonality. You have to go against the grain as pilots go against the wind. You are at odds until that success puts you on that level playing field.
You've chosen the path in which that stage will compensate your troubles through trial & error or massive success. It's a mindset & reality. You give & get or get & give. Those starting points bewildering enough meet in the middle when opposites attract as sex & attraction procure. Let your inhibitions set your own limits without setting limits first. That's experience! That's pushing the envelope of what you can & cannot do.
When ya know your rights from wrongs, you're stable. You fear justice if you challenge the wrongs & you're justified when living by the rights. You ultimately govern yourself through forgiveness of sin. That's the bottom line. You decide how you want your eternal graces. Just be mindful & malleable. When you surround yourself with people like that you all become irrefutable. A force to be reckoned with. So make it a hundred percent sure the risk is worth taking.
How you want to be remembered is how you need to be known. You can't have both unless you submit yourself as an equal. That's family & love. A fathers love is unconditional. It's not just acceptance, it's responsibility. Through a daughters holy union or a birthed descendant of. Life doesn't have rules so you have to believe in something greater than yourself. A Parent teaches those guidelines of morality through sanctity. Whether that be religion or strict parental guidance.
When you can trust yourself, your trust in others is trust well kept when you're the one that's entrusted in them. That's how you build the bonds with family & friends & friends that become family. Sometimes that's all we have so make the best of everyone that has remained in your life through the good times & the bad, through richer or poorer, sickness & in health. In closing I leave you with a famous quote;
"The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them."
~ Ernest Hemingway
Everybody; go soil your royal oats & if you are feeling a we bit guilty, you're in love. Now go tell her & dedicate your life to her happiness. In doing so, remember the sacrifice that goes forth in serving your partner. You'll be a better Man for it & you'll have a deeper love with her. Be open, honest, loyal & faithful. All a successful relationship needs is that understood & with constant communication & understanding. Roots wont grow without that nurturing of watering the seedling.
Let love rule; come rain or come shine,
Troy David 'Maestro' Beadles